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Date / Flirt Advice April 27, 2013

Why Men Talk About Stupid Stuff at the First Date

Women always complain to me about guys talking about weird or stupid stuff on the first date: He can go on for hours talking about his ex-girlfriend, has only negative stuff to tell or just doesn’t stop talking about his online game or sports. In short: Men love to talk about things that are just not that interesting for women, especially when they fail to even hear her opinion or give her anything emotionally positive. So what the hell are guy thinking about when they talk to women? The good news: Nothing bad at all! Basically most guys just want…

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Why Men Talk About Stupid Stuff at the First Date
Date / Flirt Advice April 24, 2013

Sex On The First Date?

People always ask me the same question: What about sex on the first date? Is that allowed? Is it ok? How do I get her to sleep with me right away? Well, for men and women it is important to actually think about what this first date is all about: What kind of relationship do I wish to have with this person? Is it only about sex or is there more to it? Which takes us right to the old paradox: If a woman has sex with a guy on the first date, he will think that she is easy…

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Sex On The First Date?
For Men March 30, 2013

The Clinger: How a Man Can Annoy Women and Men!

We all know these types – and there are many more of them around than we believe: he has a girlfriend and enjoys spending time with her. He has still got his hobbies and his old friends, but somehow he has not so much time for them as before, and he will rather spend time at home with her. Even if she has no time for him. When she goes to the hairdresser, he will wait for her at the door or go for “a short walk”; when her mother visits her, he will stay around being very sweet and…

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The Clinger: How a Man Can Annoy Women and Men!
Date / Flirt Advice March 25, 2013

May a Doctor Ask his Patient to Go Out on a Date?

I have received a wonderful question from a reader, which I will be of course very happy to answer: may a doctor ask his female patient to go out on a date with him, especially if he feels that the two of them have been flirting with each other? This is such a good question, because the same applies to the professor and his student, for work colleagues (boss and secretary), coach and coache etc. Something not all that unusual. Let’s see the basic rule first: the legal situation has to be clarified first of all, especially since there is…

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May a Doctor Ask his Patient to Go Out on a Date?
Date / Flirt Advice March 21, 2013

How Do I Get Her Into Bed on the First Date?

This is of course a typical male question: how do I get a woman as quickly and easily as possible – automatically and without much effort – to have sex with me, right now? This question is nothing to be ashamed of, because it is our natural inclination as men to constantly try to find ways of having quick and uncomplicated sex. If you are Brad Pitt, Ashton Kutcher, George Clooney or somebody just as famous and good-looking as they are, then in most cases this should be a relatively simple exercise. For all other men, we have to start…

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How Do I Get Her Into Bed on the First Date?
Why Men Talk About Stupid Stuff at the First Date
No Comments   Apr 27, 2013

Why Men Talk About Stupid Stuff at the First Date

Women always complain to me about guys talking about weird or stupid stuff on the first date: He can go on for hours talking about his ex-girlfriend, has only negative stuff to tell or just doesn’t stop talking about his online game or sports. In short: Men love to talk about things that are just not that interesting for women, especially when they fail to even hear her opinion or give her anything emotionally positive. So what the hell are guy thinking about when they talk to women? The good news: Nothing bad at all! Basically most guys just want...
Sex On The First Date?
No Comments   Apr 24, 2013

Sex On The First Date?

People always ask me the same question: What about sex on the first date? Is that allowed? Is it ok? How do I get her to sleep with me right away? Well, for men and women it is important to actually think about what this first date is all about: What kind of relationship do I wish to have with this person? Is it only about sex or is there more to it? Which takes us right to the old paradox: If a woman has sex with a guy on the first date, he will think that she is easy...